The Holidays and Elder Abuse
While you would like to see your loved ones more, the truth is life can be so hectic that there’s not enough time in the day. The holidays are often a time when family comes together and is able to connect, both for religious reasons as well as to share in festivities. Unfortunately this may be one of the only times you see some members of your family, whether for distance reasons or conflicting schedules, among a wide assortment of other explanations. Taking a moment to reflect on a loved one’s health and wellbeing may be a critical step in ensuring that elder abuse is not a concern in his or her day-to-day life.
Elder abuse comes in a wide range of forms, taking place not just in nursing homes but also in medical facilities or even your loved one’s home. It may be an unwelcome thought, but if a family member is the primary caregiver of your elderly loved one, gaps may exist in the care they provide that require greater attention. Being able to spend time one-on-one can provide unique clarity around how things are going and if help is needed.
Obviously you do not want to tarnish the holidays by asking blunt questions which may confuse your loved one or alienate a caregiver for no founded reason. However, there are specific warning signs to consider during the holidays to see if there may be an issue requiring action.
During the Holidays, Check For:
- Abnormal withdrawal emotionally. Has a cheerful grandparent that was the life of the conversation suddenly become reclusive and quiet? Are topics regarding family met with no response?
- Easily agitated
- Bruising or evidence of physical ailments
- Significant weight loss
- Unusual behavior, including rocking in place
- Drastic overhauls or changes in medication
- Poor hygienic condition
- Notable shifts in finances (selective gift-giving, or none at all)
Each of these listed are merely red flags or potential areas of concern that warrant questions or follow-up even during or after the holidays. While one or more of these areas of concern may be just evidence of changes in health (both physical and mental), they may also indicate a change in circumstances that can include elder abuse. Though the holidays should be a time for celebration and happiness, taking a moment for a clear look at the circumstances of your loved one may be a pivotal moment that is important for their health now and in the future.
For more information on elder abuse, including additional signs of mistreatment and next steps if you suspect elder abuse, feel free to continue reading our website or call us for more information.
